It’s officially “Cuffing Season”, folks! The season where single people look to settle down (at least for the cold months) in hopes of securing a long-lasting relationship {or to secure a “winter beater” to stay warm… though you can simply buy blankets…}. 

It’s easy to get caught up in settling for absolutely anything just so you’re not alone, but be sure you’ve healed enough from previous relationships for a healthy fresh start! When two, unhealed, wounded souls form a relationship, it would have a weak foundation full of trying and failing to heal each other, rather than simply enjoying each other’s company and creating new memories. The passion would be there, but the arguments would be proportionate to that of a hypernova.  Don’t recommend…unless that’s your jam… then do you!

Yeah, it would seem like you have a lot in common, and would probably make one feel better if they think they’re healing their partner, but once one person starts healing while the other remains complacent in their misery and stagnant in life, it can develop into a toxic, imbalanced, “push-pull” dynamic.

Have you been through this situation and are looking for a theme song to remind you NOT TO be “cuffed” into a shituation like that again? Phoenix-based industrial metal band, Soundmankillz has you covered with their single “Black Skies”, produced by Larry Elyea at Minds Eye Digital Recording in Glendale, AZ!